REyouthpastor.com is starting a series titled: Top 10 Theological Questions Teens Ask.
Teens have tons of tough questions. Over the years I have found that there are types of questions teens seem to ask frequently.
#10: Will an unsaved African kid that dies of starvation go to hell since he/she doesn’t know Jesus?
How does a youth pastor answer this question?
Answer #1: Typically the student is wanting their youth pastor to play God. This question puts the youth pastor in a tough spot. The teen wants a concrete answer. Unfortunately it is difficult for a youth pastor to judge the eternal destination of this kid. One does not know enough or have enough information about this kid in order to make a salvation call. Although the students want to know God cares for this kid. Who knows? Jesus could have appeared to him/her right before he/she died and the kid accepted Jesus right then and there. So our answer should be “I don’t know“. But what we do know is that Jesus is the TRUTH.
Answer #1a: Rather youth pastors need to steer the student away from what they think, but what the Bible says. Youth pastors need to appropriately deal with what scripture tells us. Scripture tells us Jesus is the only way, truth, and life and no one comes to the Father except through Jesus. But here is the deal– God finds no pleasure in punishment (Ezk 18.23). Youth pastors need to make sure that the student knows: God is passionately pursuing each human being. When the HELL conversation comes up it is simple to imply that God is not for us, when in reality He is completely for us.
God allows humans to keep making destructive and evil decisions and choices because God is patient and continually forgiving and longing all of us to come to life! God will not stop us from going to hell if we insist on it. Hell is a real place where everyone admits: God—I do not want your love.
Answer #1b: This question should convince students to invest in global evangelism work. This question should bug our students so bad, that they want to go to this African village and be and bring the Kingdom of God to them here and now. Whenever students asks these hard questions, I make sure to counter with a few more (harder) questions too. For example: if this question puts a heavy burden on you, are you willing to do something about it? How can God’s wrath and love co-exist? How does God view children? Do you think you have unsaved neighbors who don’t know Jesus? What are you doing about it?
9 out of 10 times students are not looking for the perfect answer. There is something always behind the question. Students are wanting guidance on how to ask deeper questions while learning to live in the paradoxes of the Christian faith. Lastly always clearly communicate the attributes of God and make sure to clear up any misconceptions they may have about God’s character.
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